But, why exactly is this? Well, all sorts of projections are involved in the falling in love phase.
This is a deeply emotionally stirring time and most people simply enjoy it and don't reflect on the deeper significance. Eventually it can all catch up with you and you are at or coming toward a cross roads in your relationship/marriage. Many people seek counseling... but this isn't a good fit for deeper work! Others seek psychotherapy... a good choice of you can find a gifted therapist. But, it all comes down to how good a relationship you have within! You simply can't live thru another person... that's unhealthy dependency = co-dependency. Real intimacy is only achieved when you are in tune with yourself!
Please call/email or blog me if you want any assistance.
Peace,
Brian & Catherine
info@innercare.org
1-604-746-1164
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